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BreakingSilence
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recently i got a new vibrator in which my b/f knew about.. ( 3 days ago) now he gets jealous whenever i use it.... what should I do? i didnt think they were supposed to cause jealously??

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What do you mean by he gets jealous when you use it, want to be a bit more specific here ?

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BreakingSilence
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yeah, like he gets kind of mad.. because he thinks he cant please me the way it does..

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any suggestions?

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Do you use the vibrator during partnered sex with him or just when you are by yourself? If you use it for partnered sex, then you can try explaining to him that it is to enhance the experience, and you may even ask him if he wants to get some for himself to use during partnered sex.

If you use it just when you are by yourself, then try explaining to him the difference between that and partnered sex and how getting jealous of an inanimate object is a little silly when you think about it. You can explain to him how partnered sex is about more than just how many orgasms a person gets, how long the orgasms last, how good the orgasms are, etc., and that it's more about the emotional bond that it creates.

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BreakingSilence
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i did get him one , im not jealous of his.. and its only when im using mine by myself...

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