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Queer Power
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A friend and I just moved in the direction of being romantic partners and had sex for the first time recently. She and I are of course all about condoms for both vaginal intercourse and oral sex... and dental dams for cunninglingus *though we haven't tried that yet!*

My question is how to spice up or add to oral sex with a condom because I wasn't able to orgasm even though it was pleasurable and fun... which isn't to say that orgasm is the end-all or to reduce sex to that!

Being lost in my partner while we're physically intimate is amazing, and I've never felt so close and turned to anyone before. I'm just looking for fun and exciting ideas about safer oral sex!

I guess I should say that I'm male-bodied to make this post more clear.

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DarkChild717
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We can't really discuss technique per guidelines, and in general, even if we could, it wouldn't do much. You're a total individual with different wants, needs, and turn-ons, and what works for me won't necessarily work for you.

So, with that said? Just try new things. Try different condoms, try using toys (if of age to purchase), try switching positions, try that sort of thing, and see what works for you and your partner.

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