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cool87
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I was wondering something. Do most girls usually swallow ejaculate and have it in their mouth ? I know this is a personal preference that vary from girl to girl but is it normal for me to not actually really want to even try it ? Does that mean anything if this grosses me out a little ?

I just thought that most girl do it and that I might be one of the few ones not doing it. And I feel some kind of pressure doing it.

And no, my boyfriend is not demanding that of me, nor did he even brought this up.

[ 12-30-2006, 09:51 PM: Message edited by: cool87 ]

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Hey, cool, don't forget about the Search feature the boards have [Smile] we've actually had a number of girls in the past ask about swallowing ejaculate.

And quite honestly, you've answered your own question - it really varies. Some girls may enjoy the taste/enjoy swallowing/what have you, others may not mind it but prefer to not swallow, others may just not want it in their mouths at all and will work out with their partners to stop oral activity before the man ejaculates, and still others just don't want to perform oral, period.

There's no "most" or "normal" about it, just like with any other sexual activity, it's about what YOU are comfortable doing and what you want or don't want. So, don't feel comfortable having ejaculate in your mouth? Then don't try it, it's as simple as that.

And besides that - if you're practicing safer sex, and you and your partner haven't recevied two full STI screenings yet, then it's really a moot point because using a condom for oral sex is the safest practice, anyhow.

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Thanks. I'll use the search option next time.

And no, we haven't had yet two full STI screenings yet, so this wouldn't have been something I would have done soon anyhow. We're both really careful to use a condom at any time.

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quote:
Originally posted by cool87:
I was wondering something. Do most girls usually swallow ejaculate and have it in their mouth ? I know this is a personal preference that vary from girl to girl but is it normal for me to not actually really want to even try it ? Does that mean anything if this grosses me out a little ?

I just thought that most girl do it and that I might be one of the few ones not doing it. And I feel some kind of pressure doing it.

And no, my boyfriend is not demanding that of me, nor did he even brought this up.

NO. MOST GIRLS DON'T DO IT,YOU'RE RIGHT, IT VARIES FROM GIRL TO GIRL. THERE IS NO RULE THAT SAYS YOU HAVE TO TRY IT OR DO IT.
YOU SHOULDN'T FEEL YOU HAVE TO, JUST TO WIN HIS APPROVAL. YOU SHOULD ONLY DO IT IF YOU, AND YOU ALONE...FEEL COMFORTABLE. SOME GIRLS SPIT IT OUT, OTHERS DON'T. SOME DON'T LET THE EJACTULATE GO IN THEIR MOUTHS. IF YOU DON'T WANT TO LET IT GO IN YOUR MOUTH, THEN JUST DON'T. NO PRESSURE.

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pfr1998- I don't really know that it's correct to say "most girls don't do it".

As dailicious said up above...

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There's no "most" or "normal" about it, just like with any other sexual activity
And P.S.: Typing in all caps is seen as yelling on the internet, so try to avoid it [Smile]

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