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im 15 years old and i had sex with my boyfriend that i have been going out with for only 4 months...but i didnt know that we were just going to do that it just happend and we were drinking that night so i dont really remember but all i remember isthat we had sex and lost my virginity and so did he...... is that bad???
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Yes it's bad. Did you even use protection? The fact that you don't even remember it is bad. You should've been far more careful.

As far as readiness goes, that's really up for you to decide. If you're comfortable with the fact that you lost your virginity and you're happy with who you lost it to, than it's really not horrible in those aspects. I lost my virginity at age 14, but I was ready in almost every way possible. You don't really sound like you were. There's a readiness checklist around here somewhere. But I don't know how to link. So.

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Consider also that the age of consent in the state of California is 18.

One or both of you could be convicted of a crime if someone decides to prosecute

I do not feel obliged to believe that the same God who has endowed us with sense, reason, and intellect has intended us to forgo their use.

- Galileo

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Just FYI? We don't market in "good" or "bad" judgments here.

Having sex in a haze with a new partner tends not to be the smartest choice ever: often partners in that sitch don't practice safer sex or use birth control properly. Limits and boundaries needed by one or both partners oftena aren't upheld or respected. As well, getting so drunk you can't remember events is a very poor move for your general health and well-being.

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