The other night when my boyfriend and I were having sex, I'm not sure if I had an orgasm. I've never had one before. Is it possible for a female to ejaculate without having an orgasm? I know women can have an orgasm but not ejaculate. Cuz when I usually have sex, I get drier towards the end, but this one time I just got a sudden burst of lubrication. People say you will know when you orgasm, but I'm not sure. The feeling was different in a good way, but it wasn't extraordinary. I know every women's orgasm is different, but what's the basic feeling? Then another thought passed my mind. Is it possible to sperm to leak out of a condom? It didn't rip or anything, but can it spill out of the other end (not the tip)...I don't know what to call it. I'm pretty sure that sudden burst came before he had an orgasm, but then again I'm not certain if it was his semen that made it wetter down there.
Was it an orgasm, ejaculation, or neither? Was it my wetness or his semen?
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