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barcode32
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I've never given my boyfriend a blow job before, but he told me how he wants me to do it. He said I should hold his balls with my other hand so I can tell when he's gonna cum. How will I be able to tell?

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Sometimes the testicles will retract right up close to the body just prior to ejaculation, but if you're holding on to them they won't be able to move so I don't know how he's expecting you to detect that movement. I can't imagine any practicle reason for knowing when he's about to cum except to avoid getting semen in your mouth. If that's the case use a flavored condom, it will protect you and your b/f from STDs as well.

A much better way of being able to know when he's about to orgasm would be to have him TELL YOU. Communication is important and far more reliable than trying to interpret all kinds of weird moans and body spasms.

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Thanks! I don't understand how he thinks I'm supposed to do that either, but thanks for answering my question.
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And one more thing, why didn't you ask him? You should be able to talk to him about this stuff if you're having sex with him, but you didn't so I wonder what other things you haven't talked to him about, like STDs. If you're going to have sex with someone you need to talk to them about their sexual history and BOTH have had STD screenings recently.

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I am comfortable talking about it with him. It just happened at like 5 in the morning and I was too tired to ask him. But I defnitely will ask him.

I know he's had sex 2 times before, I'm still a virgin. He's been tested for STD's and he's perfectly clean. So no worries.

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Remember, STD's can be contracted by other means, not just sexual contact. And others take a bit to be detected on a test. You should have two tests, 6 month's apart. You may have an STD, but it won't necessarily show up on your first test.

Always use condoms. They're great things.


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It's a good idea to get tested for STDs BEFORE the first time you have sex. That way you know for sure. Many STDs can be contracted in other ways and be asymptomatic in you and go undetected, but you could still pass them to your partner.
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Oral sex is one easy way to contract an STD.
On another site, a guy had oral sex 1 time & now has possible herpes on his penis.
Use condoms or dental dams.
Practice Safer Sex.

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