My boyfriend and I have been officially "together" for 5 months as of August 12th. We had been dating for at least 2 months before. He and I are both the kind of people who take things slow. After all this time, the only thing we've done is make out. Until, last night. And, I am extremely happy for that, and my boyfriend is as well. We are both juniors in high school and virgins.
We both feel that sex shouldn't be a part of our relationship until we mutually agree that we are ready.
So, we've decided on other alternatives for now. And last night he told me that he didn't want to have sex (actual intercourse, oral, manual, etc) until we have been together a lot longer. He's a really sentimental and passionate person, and I love the way he thinks
So, anyways..the reason why I posted this was this one concern I have:
Last night things were taken a little further and we had dry sex. We did it twice over a period of 10 hours and now we're both in a minor amount of pain.
He's got a patch of skin on his penis that looks irritated and burned, and it's from our little escapade.
Me, well, I've got minor bruising, and it's not hardly as painful as his "burn" sounds.
What can be done so that this doesn't happen? I don't really mind the bruising, it doesn't really hurt and I can deal with it. But in his situation, it sounds really painful. Is there any way to avoid this situation in the future?
Any input would be great...and thanks for any help you can give
[This message has been edited by mcb3 (edited August 19, 2000).]