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banjohusky
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So I'm gonna make this short and sweet. About a week ago my girlfriend and I were messing around. After she messed with me a little, I came and got a little precum afterwards on my finger. It was mostly clear and was just a slight. But. A small spot on my finger below the knuckle towards the hand just bigger than the knuckle. I proceeded to quickly lick it off my finger and pinch it off with my lips, slightly grabbing the skin. About 2 minutes after that I fingered her. She said something about it when we were finished and since then I've been freaking out because I'm 17, she's 16 and I can't support a child right now. The farthest we go is playing with each other and that moment was a stupid mistake on my part.

My question is. Is there a good risk of pregnancy? And about what is a good percentage estimation? I haven't slept good in days and that really isn't helping college right now.

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Molias
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Hi banjohusky.

Take a look at this article, under manual sex; that should answer your question. =)
Can I Get Pregnant, or Get or Pass On an STI From That?

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banjohusky
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But what about the slight bit of precum on the Bolton of my finger? I l sucked and licked the very little but that was there but is there still a risk? The article didn't seem to cover that. And thank you for linking it and helping me. I really need it right now.
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Molias
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The reason the article doesn't go into any specifics is that manual sex, especially as you're describing, just isn't how pregnancy happens. Whether you had precum on your finger or not, there wouldn't be a risk of pregnancy here. It really requires direct genital contact or direct contact with fresh ejaculate on a bare partner's vulva, not a small amount of semen or precum on someone's hand.
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banjohusky
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So all in all I have nothing to worry about? I am gonna be safer and take the time to santizize and wash my hands though from now on. Better safe than sorry.
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We definitely recommend that folks wash their hands before engaging in manual sex with a partner from a germ/STI transmission standpoint, so this is definitely a good idea. =)
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But I have little to nothing to worry about, correct?
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Robin Lee
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Manual sex--fingering--is just not a way anyone is at all likely to get pregnant.

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