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Forrest
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So a while back i thought my girlfriend was pregnant as we fooled around i fingered her and there may have been precum on my finger, she got her period at the end of that month, we were still worried so in the last week she did a pregnancy test that came out negative, its 7 weeks since we thought she was pregnant, shes 15 and still has irregular periods she was due them around the 28th, its the 1st now should i be worried? also she recently had a bladder infection so could that be a reason or effect her periods or am i just worrying over nothing? will they come..?

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If she's only had her periods for a few years, irregularity is normal.

She took a test, got a negative, and she did already have a period since, so you can know that she is not pregnant. You can also know that because, as we've talked about already, what you described wasn't likely to pose a pregnancy risk in the first place.

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Thanks a lot!:-)

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I have one more question, she said she got her period last month around the time expected but ive read implantation can occur at the time of your period, so could she be mistaken or am i just over thinking, she should get them soon enough, she has recently gotten cramps and is eating a lot more too, that is all but the only symptoms as well as some bloating?

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Again, in order for a person to become pregnant they have to do the things -- or someone has to do them to them -- that can cause pregnancy. Unless you haven't told us about something, those things didn't happen.

So, talking about implantation bleeding -- which is rare, anyway -- just doesn't make sense here, just like talking about giving CPR to someone who isn't in need of it doesn't, if you follow me.

Once more, it's clear your girlfriend is not pregnant. So, what you'll need to do for yourself at this point is let this go.

If you feel like you just can't, then your next best step is probably to step back from any of this sexual activity until you feel a lot less fearful.

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Thanks for the help, ill just let it all go and stop worrying

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