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annreilly96
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Me and my bf were together Saturday last. I gave him a hj and he ejaculated on my boobs. I wiped it all off me and we both put anti bacterial gel on our hands. I then went to the bathroom to pee and wiped myself. About 3 hours later he fingered me and I got some of his precum on my hands but I didn't wash my hands. I did not touch myself or go to the bathroom for another 2 hours. My period is 4 days late I have sore breasts and am feeling sick any way I could be pregnant?
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Robin Lee
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Hi annreilly96 and welcome to Scarleteen,

What you've described is not a way someone can get pregnant.


Here's some more information on what is and isn't a pregnancy risk:

Can I Get Pregnant, or Get or Pass On an STI From That?
Also, here is some information on late periods:
M.I.A or, Dude, Where's My Period?

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Ok thank you [Smile] my period has never been this late before and I guess the sore boobs and sickness made me think I might be showing early signs of pregnancy :/
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You're welcome. [Smile]

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I haven't got my period still it's been 5 days now and every day I'm feeling much sicker and more back pain [Frown]
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Have you either taken a home pregnancy test OR seen a doctor?

If not, one of those is your next step. Since you've been having continued, unexplained back pain for a while now, I'd personally suggest seeing your doctor. Especially since pregnancy does not seem at all the likely to be the reason for that pain.

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I'm getting a pregnancy test tomorrow. I think the back pain could be from the period being due but it still hasn't come [Frown] we also tried anal sex but he didnt ejaculate or anything so this couldn't have caused me to be pregnant?
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Heather
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Did you take a look at those links Robin gave to you? Sounds like you haven't.

Why don't you have a look at them? The first of them tells you exactly what risks and what level of risk most sexual activities do and don't pose, including anal sex.

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I have looked I'm just very confused as to why my period is so late and there's no way I could be pregnant! But thank you for your help [Smile]
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Can I ask how you chart your periods?

Sometimes people don't chart correctly, and can think a period is late when it really isn't.

How long have each of your cycles been for the last 3-6 months?

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I keep a record on my calendar and I got my period on the 6th of April and my next one on the 6th of may which was 30 days and I was due my next one on the 3rd-5th of June
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So, for the last 3-6 months, not just the last month, have all your cycles been 30 days? Or -- as is much more typical -- has there been some variation?

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There has been some variation but none have gone over the 30 days
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I'm trying to help you with this, but it's tough without the information I was actually asking for.

Given, sometimes periods are just late, but if you can give me the actual dates of your periods for the last 3-6 months, I can certainly help you figure out if this one is or isn't.

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March 8th
April 6th
May 6th

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I'm just very worried that I might be pregnant
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So, the last 2 are 30 then 31. But that's still not enough for me to see if there's a pattern.

Again, if you remain concerned about pregnancy then a test is your next step.

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Ok thank you for your help
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Sorry I have one more question [Smile] so I took a test and it came back negative but I'm not sure if it was accurate seen as my period was due Monday but fertilisation would have occurred on Saturday if I am pregnant so there might not be enough of the pregnancy hormone there. I started bleeding today but very light which is extremely unusual for me and I am worried that this may be implantation bleeding?
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Here's some information on how and when to take a pregnancy test:

Peeing on a Stick: All About Pregnancy Tests

Since you were expecting your period, there's no reason to think that this isn't your period. [Smile] There's always a first time when it comes to variations in menstruation. [Smile] So, at this point you'll just need to hang on and see if your period continues, and, if you still feel like it's necessary, test at a time that you determine is the right time after reading the testing information in that link.

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