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lovepink888
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So I went out with my boyfriend tonight and he was fingering me pretty hard. When I got home I found watery discharge with blood coming-out of my vagina and in my underwear. I am a virgin. there was also some oral sex involved on me but none was done on him. Am I at risk for a pregnancy? Is it common to bleed after fingering? I need help!
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Manual sex can cause some minor injuries on occasion. Ways to avoid that is making sure that your partner has short, neat fingernails (or having him wear gloves, to be extra safe), and that he goes slowly and uses lots of extra lube.

It's not something you have to worry about, however. The spotting should stop in a day or so, and in the meantime it's a good idea to let your body heal and hold off on sexual activities that involve vaginal entry.

As for a pregnancy risk, check out this posthttp://www.scarleteen.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?/ubb/get_topic/f/28/t/006958.html

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So the bleeding is normal? This morning the bleeding was over but I have darker discharge.. is that normal too?
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The bleeding can happen with manual sex, yes, though as Joey said, there are many ways to prevent the minor injuries that lead to bleeding. The darker discharge might be from a little leftover blood.

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Is it likely to get pregnant from manual or oral sex?
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Can you take a look at this link? Lots of information in there about what can lead to pregnancy. Then, if you still have questions, come on back.

http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?/ubb/get_topic/f/28/t/007116.html

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That helps. Thanks. But I do have a question. If someone were to have touched themselves and then touched you does that pose a risk?
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Hi lovepink888. You can find that information in the articles provided in the link Robin gave you [Smile]
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