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Themacguy101
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hi scareleteen, my girlfriend and i are virgins. we really messed around for the first time about two days ago. she licked my penis a little bit. after about 30 minutes after doing nothing i gave her oral. during the oral i kissed her for the first time since she had licked me and i continued to give her oral. idk if i had precummed when she licked me though, so my question is, if i did pre, and she licked it up... 30 minutes later and i kissed her, could it have gone into my mouth, and then into her vagina when i performed more oral on her?were really scared and clueless please help:(
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Karybu
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Please have a read through this first, then come on back if you have any questions: http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?/ubb/get_topic/f/28/t/006958.html

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Themacguy101
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I realize oral is nothing to worry about. But can sperm live inside a persons mouth? Then into mine from a kiss then into her vagina from my mouth?
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Heather
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Sperm cells are really quite delicate and also awfully particular about the environments they can stay viable in. pH balance, in particular, is a biggie.

I don't know of any science that supports the notion that the kind of transfer you're asking about can result in a pregnancy. The concerns with unprotected oral sex, in any case, are with STIs, not pregnancy.

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Saffron Raymie
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Sperm cells are way too delicate to be transfered by hand, let alone by mouth. They need very specific conditions to be able to co-create a pregnancy; the right temperature, fluids etc.

The only things that can cause pregnancy are if a penis and vulva touch, or someone with a penis ejaculates directly onto a vulva.

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Themacguy101
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Ok so the oral is out of the question? I also grabbed my penis when I was receiving oral, I'm confident I didn't get any pre on it but could it have still been a risk about fifteen minutes later if I fingered her?
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Robin Lee
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Were you able to take a look at oure Pregnancy Scared article? It's in the link Karybu sent you above.
No, pregnancy is not possible through oral sex.

As to fingering and semen...thinkin about it this way. Sperm (which is in semen) needs a very specific environment to thrive and to do its work. That environment isn't on the hands, in the mouth, on clothes, etc, etc. So, if the semen has to make a stop between the penis and the vagina (again, on hands, or clothes, or whatever) it isn't able to contribute to pregnancy.

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Themacguy101
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Yes I read it, I am convinced and positive she isn't pregnant, she isn't though, I'm being there for her but her unsureness is starting to make me doubt, any help?
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Robin Lee
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Perhaps you and your girlfriend can read the articles together? This is a situation where I can tell you with absolute certainty that the sexual activities you describe are not pregnancy risks.

Your girlfriend is always welcome to come here herself to chat with us.

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Themacguy101
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thank you a lot, i really appreciate it.her period is expected on the 22nd, its really stressful for her, and even though I'm 100% sure she's not pregnant, I'm worried about her though, she's been panicking a lot, just to clear, there is no possible way for her to be pregnant. correct? i could describe to you the details if necessary but the three times i touched her was 1.fingering her but i hadn't touched myself yet, 2. oral about 30 minutes after she touched me and licked my penis, and 3. fingering her about 15 minutes after she performed oral on me and grabbing my penis for about 10 seconds.
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