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sw33tjuiceee23
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hi, me and my boyfriend had anal sex and he peed before we had anal sex and we had it well and he withdrew before he ejaculated to avoid my vagina because we didnt have condoms and all was well up until like 10 sec after he withdrew he came, now I was on my hands and knees and most of it went on my butt but some flew where my vaginal opening was, my vaginal opening was closed tho. so help me assess my risk please because although we can have a child right now we don't really want too lol
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Robin Lee
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Any kind of genital contact, whether it's anal intercourse, vaginal intercourse, or prolonged rubbing together of bare genitals, poses a risk for pregnancy.

You can read this article for more information:

Pregnancy Scared?

When did you and your boyfriend have sex?

Are you on any other type of birth control?

Would you like to discuss your options going forward with this?

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sw33tjuiceee23
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beginning of the month my vaginal lips were closed ho does that really pose a risk
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When are you expecting your period?

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There is a risk to unprotected intercourse even if you were using withdrawal, because there is still a risk when using that form of birth control. And yes, direct ejaculation on the vulva, whether the lips are closed or whether it is in the vagina itself, does pose a pregnancy risk.

I suggest you get a home pregnancy test so you can know for sure one way or the other rather than trying to figure out how much risk you might have had.

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