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mouse
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Please help me, I'm totally freaking out!!! On October 28, my boyfriend and I were fooling around, without clothes on, and he touched himself a couple times, and then fingered me! I totally freaked out. He never came, but he might have had pre-ejaculate on his fingers! ): My period in November came 7 days late! I haven't gotten my period yet for this month, but I'm not suposed to get it till monday. Should I go to a clinic and get tested to see if I'm pregnant? Can you get pregnant if theres no penetration but you come in contact with pre-seminal fluids? I'm so worried! HELP!
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Karybu
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Transferring trace amounts of pre-ejaculate from place to place does not pose a pregnancy risk. That said though, it sounds like taking a pregnancy test might be worth taking just to help you stop stressing - sometimes seeing that negative result is a big relief.

As for why your period was late last month, there could be a bunch of reasons, including stress. Bodies aren't machines, and sometimes they do things we aren't expecting.

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I took 3 pregnancy tests and they've all came back negative. I am a huge hypochondriac though, I saw myself when I got out of the shower, it looked like my nipples were darker, so I freaked out and posted here. Should I take another pregnancy test?
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With three negative results (and a period since this happened, to boot) there's really no way pregnancy is possible. At this point, I'd just try and relax - easier said than done, I know - whatever that involves for you.

Have you thought about taking a break from any kind of sex for awhile? Sometimes, when we're freaking out big-time about pregnancy, it can be because we're not totally ready at that point to be having some (or any) kinds of sex. That's not a bad thing, and it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you, but it's something you may want to think about.

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Yeah, thanks so much for making me feel better! We stopped all sorts of sexual activity cause my big sister said that it was obvious we weren't ready. Which clearly we aren't! Thanks so much for putting my worries to rest! You're site has helped me so much, I was such a sheltered kid growing up, I don't know anything!
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Glad to help, and glad to hear you're feeling better!

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