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Nouvelle
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Just really worried
and need some guidance:

Less than an hour ago, I was making out with out with my boyfriend in his car. I was sort of sitting on him with my legs wrapped around him and was "grinding," I guess, against his crotch. He was wearing underwear and basketball shorts, and I was wearing underwear and short running shorts. I was really sweaty because I had just been running and the car was hot.

So, after moved away from eachother, I checked his shorts and saw no wet spots, but when he pulled down his pants for a moment to check his underwear, we saw a dot of what was probably precum.

So, when I got home, I looked at my shorts, and there was a large wet spot around my crotch and now I'm totally freaked. Could it have just been sweat/female discharge or do I have a pregnancy risk here? I'm scared! Please help!

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LilBlueSmurf
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Sperm getting through several layers of clothing is impossible. They're just not that strong. Any fluid you saw on your shorts were your own. There is no pregnancy risk here.

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Nouvelle
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Is this still true considering the clothes were relatively thin, ie athletic fabrics? Because I'm not talking two layers of heavy denim here.
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faifai
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There would still be 4 layers of fabric for any potential sperm to get through - his underwear, his shorts, your shorts, and then your underwear. I would say it's safe to assume you have no pregnancy risk in this situation.

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