In case you're asking if having aborted before lowers your risk of conceiving afterwards, the answer is no, it does not.

ECP is NOT abortion, for the record.

Withdrawal is also not birth control. Pre-ejaculate and ejaculate create pregnancies.

If she doesn't want to get ECP, that is her choice. If she is not prepared to handle a pregnancy, or does not want one, I'd certainly suggest she does, but at this point, because of the choice you made and she apparently agreed to (not using a condom and/or birth control), she gets to decide what she wants to do, period.

Which means that you may possibly become a daddy. Again, that's the way this goes when that's the choice you make, honey.

I'd suggest you both talk about this together further, as may be obvious.

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Heather Corinna
Editor and Founder, Scarleteen

I'm sorry I can't tell you anything different. Please reread Miz Scarlet's post and talk to your partner. The two of you need to discuss how you plan to handle your current situation (at risk for both pregnancy and STD/STIs) and where to go from here. If it turns out she is not pregnant you'll want to discuss condoms and back-up methods of birth control such as the patch or Depo.

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Heather Corinna
Editor and Founder, Scarleteen

I don't know how the health care system works there, so I suggest you or she call a local hospital and ask how to obtain it.

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Heather Corinna
Editor and Founder, Scarleteen