As well born, if this is the man you were talking about in your last posts, you might want to slow down.
I was under the impression the two of you weren't even dating yet and hadn't had much more than very casual friendly contact.
When someone like that starts talking about intercourse from the get-go, it should set off some warning bells: namely, that thay may just be looking to get into your pants.
Not all men far older than much younger girls are just out for sex, however, it isn't uncommon for older men to look to young girls sometimes when they're just curious, looking to score, or when they know an older girl or woman would know better.
If I've misunderstood the situation, I apologize, but if not, stop and think. It just sounds so far like this relationship had not at all progressed to any point where it'd be normal to start talking about sex together.
Editor and Founder, Scarleteen
My epitaph should read: "She worked herself into this ground."
-- Kay Bailey Hutchinson