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sigh... pls help mi who ever could help... i had sex with my girlfriend a few days ago.. and she just had her period about 5 day before having sex... wats the percentage that she could be pregnant? i pulled myself out before i ejaculate.. i was quite far from her when i ejaculate.. and also.... i was IN her not even for more then 10 seconds! so is there any possibility that she will be pregnant? and by the way... before having sex... she had masturbate me (jus for ur information, coz i really need a accurate advice... can u pls mail ur answers to <edited>?) and before i was IN her... my penis was dry... PLS HELP!!! she is worried so do i... we wan to know wat will happen....

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We answer questions on the boards for two reasons: so other people in your situation can read the answer, and to protect you - your email address will be edited out shortly.

Now, on to your question. Yes, your girlfriend does have a risk of pregnancy. How high? Well, from What's The Risk? - Five Easy Pregnancy Risk Assessment Flow Charts:

Did you have unprotected penis-in-vagina intercourse (no condom, no other birth control of any kind), but WITHOUT ejaculation into or onto the vagina or vaginal area?

If you DID have unprotected penis-in-vagina intercourse but the man DID NOT ejaculate, then you have a MODERATE to HIGH risk of pregnancy. See your health care provider as soon as possible for a pregnancy test/Morning After Pill and an STD screening.

And that's what your girlfriend needs to do. And both of you need to get tested for STDs - even if you think you don't have any - because you have a very significant risk of STD transmission.

For your pleasure:
Testing, Testing…
A Simple Condom Primer

Even if you can't feel it, pre-ejaculate ("precum") is there, and it can get a girl pregnant. If it has been less than 72 hours since the event, she can get Emergency Contraception.

Laurel Lemming
Scarleteen Advocate

"Ooh, I'll settle down with some old story/About a boy who's just like me/Thought there was love in everything and everyone, you're so naive!"-Belle and Sebastian, "Get Me Away From Here I'm Dying"

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