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My boyfriend only fingered me but there was a chance of sperm on his hands. I know there was no risk of pregnancy as I asked this question before but both my parents found out. So they made me take a test. Thank god I'm not pregnant! My mum the most angry but my dad was very calm about it. They're both disappointed in me and told me that it would talk a lot to get our trust back. They say that they're thinking of telling his parents as well but what if they hate me? Seeing as I'm only a year older than my boyfriend.. my parents are happy for me to see my boyfriend with conditions but I'm scared of how awkward its going to be from now on and I just want help gaining trust again and being back to normal, thanks [Confused]
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What is it that your parents consider a breach of trust? Had you and they previously talked about anything to do with your relationship or you possibly becoming sexually active, and had you all made any agreements about any of that?

The kyriarchy usually assumes that I am the kind of woman of whom it would approve. I have a peculiar kind of fun showing it just how much I am not.

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