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ladrish
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Theres this naugthy guy in our class. He teased my friend by touching his penis then touched her hand.she immediately used alcohol.her question is, if there was sperm, could alcohol removed it from her hand?and when she touched her private part with her hand a few minutes after she had used the alcohol,is there a pregnant risk?

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Heather
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I am very sorry to hear your friend was sexually harrassed like that.

While emotionally, that kind of thing feels awful, that is not a reason for a concern with pregnancy, even if she had not washed her hands. That is not how pregnancy happens.

This is how: http://www.scarleteen.com/article/bodies/where_did_i_come_from_a_refresher_course_in_human_reproduction

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[Heather got there first.]

[ 02-11-2014, 09:50 AM: Message edited by: September ]

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ladrish
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thanks but she's still paranoid that she wants to go to the doctor to ask that.i figured that the doctor would laugh at herr.
Is it possible that his hand had sperm then it passed in her hand?
Can alcohol remove that?
She is so paranoid because she said she touched her virginia with her hand minutes after that

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Well, do doctor should be laughing at a person's health concerns. I would be very dismayed and shocked to see a doctor do that to someone.

Again, this is not how pregnancy happens, period. Alcohol doesn't get a chance to do anything because this is not how pregnancy happens, as you can find out by reading that link I provided you with.

But if she'd feel better talking to her doctor about that, I don't see why not to support her in doing that, as her friend. Talking to doctors about how things do or do not happen with our bodies and health is a part of healthcare.

[ 02-11-2014, 06:45 PM: Message edited by: Heather ]

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last question
so there is no chance that a sperm has passed into her hand?
Sorry if annoying but she wants me to asked that

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No. We've made that clear, and this is the last time we will answer this question. If your friend wants more reassurance, she needs to see a healthcare provider.

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Heather
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Or, she can read the link we gave you -- maybe she will understand that pregnancy does not happen via sperm being "passed" if she does, since we explain that very clearly there -- or she can register her own account and talk with us if there is something she is not understanding.

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ladrish
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Sorry to be bothering again but my friend saw a question on healthtap(where you can ask doctors there) and it said something like this : if a object has a sperm that is not visible then it was touched by a girl and then touched her virginia can she be preg?
The doctor replied yes
she freaked out again cause she thinks that the object can be her hand
Pls make her calm cause i know its totally impossible

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I am sorry your friend saw info that made her panic again, but the situation you described cannot cause pregnancy. Again, she should read that link Heather provided (or this one http://www.scarleteen.com/cgi-bin/forum/ultimatebb.cgi?/ubb/get_topic/f/10/t/002611.html#000000) or register her own account to talk to us

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She so worried because the guy actally touched his BARE PENIS inside his shorts in front of her which made her super super paranoid up to now
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ladrish, we understood what you were telling us. We've given you all the information we can. If your friend - or you, as you originally came to us with worry - cannot stop worrying about this, then the very best thing we can suggest is to see a mental health professional, as persistent worry about something which cannot happen is a mental health issue.

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ladrish
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I've read about the forum you've given me.it says that you cannot get pregant by touching yourself after you tozched someone whose hand has touched their penis. Is that applicable in this scenario?
She supposed to have her period for 3days now,but she missed it.

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I have been clear that if your friend wants more information or assistance from us, then she needs to register her own account and post on her own behalf.

[ 02-17-2014, 08:29 AM: Message edited by: Heather ]

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