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myclonictwit
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Uh... so, I'm 15, female. Last night I had my first sex dream.
Only, it was with a fictional character. Not only that, but a non-human one. An AI/robot.
Does that make me messed up? I mean, I'm deep fandom, but I've never been really bothered by sex. I don't even fantasize, since I have visualisation problems, and I rarely think about it.
Then randomly... this.
Could I have some advice?

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Heather
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Welcome to the boards. [Smile]

Really, dreams about sex are just like any other kind of dream. They're most often, I'd say, weird by design because they're basically subconscious and unconscious static. They're not rational, and they're not real, and in many ways, they're not even a reflection of our realities.

I'm not sure how to advise you beyond that, because I'm not sure what you really want advice with save asking us if having this dream makes you "messed up" or not, which is a pretty vague term all by itself.

But I don't see any cause for concern because of this dream, if that's what you're asking.

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myclonictwit
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Um, thanks.
I was just you know... kinda worried.
Thank you for the reassurance, it's much appreciated.

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