So my boyfriend and I were making out and groping around today and I offered to give him a handjob, because he had just gotten me off and it seemed fair. But he said not to bother, because masturbation isn't pleasurable to him at all until he orgasms, so it wouldn't be worth it. I don't get it. What on earth does that mean? I've never heard of such a thing. How can masturbation not be pleasurable? Any thoughts?
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I think this is something only your boyfriend can tell you. I'm certainly not quite sure, from what you've said here, what he meant, but honestly any time a partner says something and you aren't sure how to interpret it, they're going to be the best expert about their own situation. =)
So, maybe it would be a good idea to have a talk with him about what you both enjoy and what sounds good to do together?
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