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sarah16
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I have a preganacy scare..
Me and my boyfriend were fooling around and I ended up giving him a handjob. After a little bit I made him really wet but he never came. When I took my hand away it was wet with pre-cum but dried within 2 minutes max! After that.. It took me about half an hour to get home and I forgot to wash my hands and went straight to the bathroom. Even though my hand was dry is there any risk?
After that I washed my hands.. Another half an hour went by and I got into bed and fingered myself.. Is this another risk? Also can your body have pregnancy signs when you're worried? I feel like I'm bloated and having hot flushes/headaches and backaches? Thank you for any advice.. This might sound silly but I'm just really worried.

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Sarah, have you read the article that I linked you to earlier? Here it is again, just in case: Can I Get Pregnant, or Get or Pass On an STI From That?

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sarah16
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Yes I did read it thank you. It helped a tiny bit but I'm still very worried. Can you answer my question personally? Also.. The article doesn't say anything about my so called "pregnancy symptoms"? If you could give me any details, it'll be much appreciated [Smile]
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Well, the article says that there are really only two ways that someone can become pregnant: if there is direct contact between naked genitals, and if someone ejaculates directly onto someone else's genital area. Did any of that happen?

Bloating and headaches are not just symptoms of pregnancy. In fact, they much more commonly appear for reasons other than pregnancy. If you 're still feeling unwell in a couple of days, it is a good idea to call a doctor.

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Oh okay. No none of that happend. I did have dry sperm on my hand a while after then touched myself but that can't get me pregnant can it?
Okay I will. Thank you for your advice so far.

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Touching yourself with a hand that may or may not have had precum on it, hours after the fact, is not direct contact. So, no. Not a risk.

What have you and your boyfriend done to educate yourself about pregnancy risks? Have you talked about which activities you are ready for?

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I am a very anxious person and when it comes to these sort of activities I get paranoid and start thinking the worst.
Yes, we have talked about this all. I'm not having sex until I am married.. So the only activities we engage in sexually are oral.
Thank you for your time, I appreciate it [Smile]

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