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chandlersmith
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i have a question....my boyfriend and i were having dry sex and we both had clothes on. he had on boxers and sweat pants. i had on a very thin thong and spandex shorts. i was laying on top of him and when i got up i noticed that he had ejaculated because my shorts had a wet spot. i'm very worried that i am pregnant from this. is this even possible? can someone explain to me if this has ever happened?

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Patricia H
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Hi there,

We get this question a lot here on Scarleteen. The answer to your question is in the following links below:

http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?/ubb/get_topic/f/27/t/027495.html

http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?/ubb/get_topic/f/19/t/000494.html

http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?/ubb/get_topic/f/14/t/000366.html

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Patricia H
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Double post; please delete. Thank you!

[ 09-01-2013, 03:41 PM: Message edited by: Patricia H ]

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chandlersmith
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i read the article you posted but from reading my post can you reassure me if i am correct. from what i stated i am in no risk of pregnancy correct?
i have missed my period and im assuming that it's due to me stressing so much?

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Heather
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As those links and other content on the site explain clearly, this does not pose any risk of pregnancy.

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okay thank you for reassuring me. i was very worried and stressed out. i think i missed my period because i have been so stressed. thanks for helping me out and i will worry no more. if i have missed my period will it come later?

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A "missed" period is basically a skipped period: where someone skips for one cycle, but gets it again in another.

A late period is exactly what it sounds like: it's coming soon, it's just not here yet.

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okay then i will worry no more and just wait. i have gotten like light pink spotting but no period yet. it that also normal? i'm asking because i have never missed a period ever. that's also why i have been freaking out so much and thinking that i was possibly pregnant from what happened.

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What's normal with periods is personal: I can't know what's normal for you, though for most people, when they notice it, periods don't tend to start out with instant heavy flow, but with spotting or lighter flow.

Missing periods now and then, or having them come later or earlier than expected is fairly common, especially the first handful of years people have them for. Becoming pregnant from things that can't create a pregnancy isn't real, but periods being variable is.

This piece can fill you in on that some: M.I.A or, Dude, Where's My Period?

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my period always starts out light and then it starts to get heavier as the day goes by but right now it's a very light pink. i'll wait it out and see if it will come. thank you so much for your help and explaining to me that i am not pregnant from what i described. you really helped take some weight off my shoulders [Smile]

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So, sounds then like this IS very much your normal. [Smile]

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