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Eden oscar
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Ok hi! I'm new to the forum... Please reply soon!!! This topic probably has bored u to tears by now...however despite reading most of the forums related to this...I'm still paranoid...i think it would be best to talk to someone directly rather than relate to someone else. Ok so I've been reading some of the forums regarding this topic...but many of then are talking about thick materials like denim...most sites i visit either agree with you regarding sperm going through clothes and others say they do not go through... Ok so heres my situation/question?
1. Making out...which lead to dry humping...when i went to the bathroom i noticed that my pyjamas were wet... I did ejaculate however i have gotten used to stopping my cum by squeezing my penis...anyway im nt sure if the cum went on her or if it was precum. 2. Both of us were wearing clothes(no penetration whatsoever) however they were thin...i had boxers made of cotton and pyjamas made of cotton...she had pjs made of polyester and knickers made of cotton...they were not too thin...but standard...so all in all 4 layers of clothing... 3. Does this have a pregnancy risk? 4. Can the sperm still get through? 5.what materials can sperm not get through? 6.i have read most of your articles

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Robin Lee
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Hi Eden oscar and welcome to Scarleteen,

When people are wearing clothing, pregnancy is just not something at all likely to happen. When people are wearing as much clothing as you're describing, no matter what the materials are, I feel pretty safe in saying that pregnancy just can't happen.

You're asking about whether sperm can get through clothing, or specific fabrics. The thing is, sperm can't do anything all by itself. Sperm needs semen, it needs that semen to be at a certain temperature, it needs that semen to have a certain viscocity (texture). Not only that, but in order to create a pregnancy, they need the specific chemistry of the vagina.

Sperm cells, all by themselves, really can't do anything.

You've said that you've read many of the articles. Have you seen this one about reproduction? Even if you have, I'd suggest taking another read to see all the things that are really needed for reproduction to happen.

Where DID I Come From? A Refresher Course in Human Reproduction

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Eden oscar
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Thank you Robin...but i still feel anxious...but ur response has calmed me down slightly...i have a few questions still... 1.in the article it says that a fertilised egg does not implant and pregnancy does not occur, could you please elaborate...2. Lets say some sperm did actually get into the vagina lets say rather than millions, a few thousand...they would die right? Because there is not enough semen to balance the PH?.And because most of them die en-route to the tubes? Could you also tell me the other ways in which sperm could die en route as in the article it says 200-600million sperm are ejaculated however only about 50 reach the ovum..Thank you for your quick reply before...

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Eden oscar
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Thank you Robin...but i still feel anxious...but ur response has calmed me down slightly...i have a few questions still... 1.in the article it says that a fertilised egg does not implant and pregnancy does not occur, could you please elaborate...2. Lets say some sperm did actually get into the vagina lets say rather than millions, a few thousand...they would die right? Because there is not enough semen to balance the PH?.And because most of them die en-route to the tubes? Could you also tell me the other ways in which sperm could die en route as in the article it says 200-600million sperm are ejaculated however only about 50 reach the ovum..Thank you for your quick reply before...

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Robin Lee
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Hi There,

Well, first of all, for semen and sperm to reach the vagina, they have to get there directly, either through genitals coming into contact with each other directly (bare, no clothes) or someone ejaculating directly onto a bare vulva.

When there is an ejaculation, into the vagina or onto the vulva, and the egg is present and does get fertilized by a sperm, that doesn't mmean that it will then lead to pregnancy. As you read in the article, the joined ovum and sperm then continue to divide into multiple cells, and to grow, and they move along the fallopian tube until they eventually end up in the uterus. however, this process could stop at any ppoint on its own and a pregnancy would not occur.

I'm not really sure what you're asking about regarding what would happen if thousands of sperm ended up in the vagina instead of millions.

In terms of why so many sperm die once they are ejaculated and make it into the vagina, many of them end up being too fragile to survive the vagina's environment, so they break and are no longer able to move with the rest of the sperm or they die outright.

Does this help at all?

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Eden oscar
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Yes thank you, so it is near impossible for her to get pregnant?

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Robin Lee
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Yes, it's just not at all likely, if not impossible, for someone to get pregnant through clothes.

Mind, if you're still not feeling secure, that might be a signal to you to take a break from this kind of activity. it's no fun doing something when you feel really worried about it afterwards.

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Eden oscar
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Btw i was just wondering...lets say in hypothetical situaition...people have sex days before the girl has her period...her egg HAS been fertilised would she still have that period...or would she miss the next one?

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Most people won't be able to become pregnant just a couple days before a period, because they will have ovulated at least one week, and usually closer to two, before that time.

That's not everyone, some people, though it's rare, will sometimes ovulate more than once in a cycle and can very late, but honestly, it's so rare it's barely worth talking about.

If someone becomes pregnant in a given cycle, though, whatever the timing, they will miss the menstrual period upcoming, the one they would most likely have had had they not become pregnant.

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So is it very likely that the person can become pregnant a week into their period? And thank you for your reply before! And could i just ask are all your staff and volunteers very experienced in these matters?

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Hi Eden Oscar,

A person can theoretically become pregnant at any point in their cycle, but yes, there are times when pregnancy is more or less likely. i'm going to give you a couple of articles that talk about the menstrual cycle and about fertility related to the menstrual cycle.

This article explains the different phases of the menstrual cycle:

On the Rag: A Guide to Menstruation

This one talks more specifically about fertility and the menstrual cycle:


Get With the Flow: All About FAM

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Eden oscar
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Thanks Robin!!!! Especially for easing my worry!

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Oh and Heather!!!! That'll be all for now.

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