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enthusiasm
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one day no one was at home.so I decided to watch porn. After watching porn for 1 hour I masturbated in bathroom. After cleaning all that stuff I went to garden just to walk where I saw my mother's underwear was hanging on a rope. On seeing that underwear a thought came in my mind.

I want to tell you here that I suffer from obsessive compulsive disorder.

so on seeing my mother's underwear I thought what if I masturbated on my mother's underwear and she wears it. will she be pregnant?

I am not sure whether I masturbated on my mothers underwear or not. Usually I masturbate in my bathroom.

what should I do now ?should I go and wash my mother's underwear. But then I think that what will my mother think if she sees me washing her underwear.

what should I do now ?
please help me.

[ 08-09-2013, 06:36 AM: Message edited by: enthusiasm ]

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Robin Lee
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HI Enthusiasm,

What you're describing here is just not a way anyone can get pregnant. We've already talked with you about ways that people can and can't get pregnant. Can you go back and read those posts, plus the articles that we linked you to?

Are you getting any medical help for your obsessive compulsive disorder?

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So even if I had masturbated on my mother's underwear and she weared it
will she not get pregnant?

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Robin Lee
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No, no one can get pregnant that way. It also sounds like you didn't do that in the first place.

Are you getting any medical help for your obsessive compulsive disorder?

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Robin

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even if I did it in first place will she (my mother) be pregnant?

[ 08-09-2013, 12:05 PM: Message edited by: enthusiasm ]

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Again, please read the other conversations we've had with you, if need be, and if those answers, and these, we have given aren't working for you -- if facts aren't working -- then it's clear that focusing on things like your OCD, and help there, is the next best step.

When facts don't help with something like this, or you feel like you need to keep asking the same questions over and over, even knowing the answers will be the same, you can be sure it's not actually facts you need to help you.

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ok I understood what you said. I will feel better if you delete your above comment, this comment given by me, and my comment posted on 08-09-2013 at 10 :03 AM by me as soon as possible.....

thanks

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Enthusiasm,

We make clear in our guidelines that we don't make a practice of deleting posts unless they contain information that could put someone in danger of abuse or violence from another person.

We use our limited resources to respond to folks' questions and develop and maintain other aspects of our organization.

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actually I am a patient of ocd(obsessive compulsive disorder).My anxiety is rising very much that's why I asked you to delete the replies asked by me. please understand me.

hope you will delete the comments.

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Again, we do not delete posts unless they contain information that puts someone's safety at risk, and we need you to stop asking us to do so. Your OCD and your anxiety is something that you need to manage, we are not responsible for managing it for you.

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