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Karli
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Hello. I am a 19 year old college student. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months. Either of us do not want sexual intercourse until marriage.
My last period was June 5th, previous one was May 6th. I need to note that my periods are never the same; i could be one day late, a week late, or once was 19 days late (a few years back though).
Anyway, my boyfriend likes to finger me. every time i give him a handjob, i"m careful to wash my hands off from any precum (that i can feel). the last time he fingered me was June 26th, and i told him not to anytime we met afterward because i knew my period was soon. It is now July 13th, and I still don't show much signs of a period coming. I dont know of any time where either him or i could have fingered me and have precum on it. i"m worried that I am pregnant.
i have to note that June was a bad month, as I was worried about a chest pain on my left side since Father's day, and I'm a major hockey fan and I tell how I "went crazy" with each game. I have been worried about this, and other family problems since then. I took a pregnancy test (First Response) today (7/13), a week and a day after I was supposed to have my period. the test showed not pregnant, but didn't go away. I will figure trying the other one in about a week. I just don't know what to do or think, and im getting upset about it. Is it possible that fingering me with precum caused me to become pregnant?
Thanks to anyone who can help.

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Karli
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Also I have to note that the past two days my left, and then right side have been hurting a bit. Could it be my ovaries?

Also, he is the first guy that I have been with, my first boyfriend.

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Redskies
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Hi Karli, and welcome to Scarleteen.

Have you seen this article Can I Get Pregnant, or Get or Pass On an STI From That? ? It should tell you what you need to know.

If you're wondering why you've not had your period when you were expecting it, M.I.A or, Dude, Where's My Period? might help you out.

If you have any questions about any of that, you're very welcome to ask.

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Karli
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Thank you for the welcome and the quick reply.
I have read the articles. Thanks for them.

But is it possible for any known precum on a finger to cause pregnancy? whether deep manual sex or not?

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So, if we're talking about fingers on or in genitals, that's manual sex. The first article I linked you to makes clear that there are no pregnancy risks from manual sex.

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Yes, manual sex is what i am talking about. my boyfriend and i have agreed to be more careful and wash our hands more often so this scare doesn't take place again. Thank you for your help
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Also, if you have pain which gets worse or continues, it's best to check in with a healthcare provider. We aren't doctors, and anyway, diagnosing someone over the internet isn't a good idea.

Hand-washing is a great way of insuring hygiene and peace of mind for everyone [Smile] You're welcome.

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