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EYTIN
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My boyfriend and I had foreplay but we are wearing clothes i felt wetness in his shorts where his penis is and i hink thats precum he touched it also to check it out after a couple of minutebthe same hand that he touched with precum touched my vagina outside my jeans. Am i pregnant? And also he came on top on me and i felt his penis. Am i pregnant help!!
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Welcome to the boards, EYTIN. [Smile]

We can't ever tell someone whether they are pregnant or not: only a pregnancy test can give people that answer.

In terms of what risks of pregnancy you did or didn't choose to take, why don't you start by looking through this first: Can I Get Pregnant, or Get or Pass On an STI From That?

If there's anything you still don't understand after using that tool to figure this out, I'll be happy to help you.

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But can you please tell me if there is a chance i could be pregnant in that scenario? Please.
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Guys help me im scaared [Frown]
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Helppppp [Frown]
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Helppppp [Frown]
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Hi eytin. We feel that it is important for users to read the information we already have about any particular situation, so that you can understand the WHYs and HOWs and thus be able to be confident in your knowledge and to be able to apply it in the future, so that you aren't depending on us to just tell you yes or no each time, you know? For more on our limits around pregnancy questions, please check out these posts:
http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?/ubb/get_topic/f/10/t/002477.html
http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?/ubb/get_topic/f/27/t/028457.html

So, we have some excellent articles that will give you all the information you could possibly need about this. Heather already linked you to one, and here are some more that will help:

Pregnancy Scared?
Where DID I Come From? A Refresher Course in Human Reproduction

Once you have read through those, if there is something you don't understand, then feel free to come back and ask about that.

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We also ask that you not bump a post, please. As is explained in the user guidelines that you agreed to when you signed up for these boards, we ask all users to wait for at least 48 hours before bumping their post. We will respond whenever we get the chance. Thanks.
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EYTIN
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Im sorry im just scared as i read those articles i find out that i cant be pregnant by that cause sperm cannot swim in clothes and it is died if it is dry right?
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That is correct; sperm cannot get through a layer of clothing.
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And if precum otuches clothes skin and even exposed at air it died it cannot make you pregnant. Right? [Smile]
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That's correct.

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Thankyou i'm calm now :*
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Glad to hear it.

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One last question you sure im not pregnant from that scenario of mine?
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One last question you sure im not pregnant from that scenario of mine?
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We have made it clear already that pregnancy isn't possible here - that answer is not going to change.

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Thankyou so much im smiling [Smile] but i feel sick and tired maybe its because of my colds you think? [Smile]
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Feeling sick and tired can be the result of all sorts of things, including having a cold.

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EYTIN
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I started my school and maybe its because of that also.can i ask again? Is it normal if you nipple got sensiive after massage kiss licked and sucked by someone and also around the aerola? I appreciate this sie so much!
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Having your nipples touched or stimulated in any way can definitely make them more sensitive, yes.

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Oh thankyou so much.this site helps a lot of teenager [Smile] when i jump a lot my lower abdomen hurts and also my vagina like something will fall what does it mean?
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That's something you need to ask a doctor about. We're not medical professionals here and even if we were, it's not possible to diagnose someone over the internet.

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Okay thanks a lot but im happy tjat im not pregnant. Lol
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Is that true that you can have disease from kissing?
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If one partner has a cold or other communicable disease (like herpes, for example), then yes, they may pass that on to the other partner.

To be clear, kissing itself does not cause disease. But it is possible to transmit disease via kissing.

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Okay! Thankyou so much [Smile]
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Okay! Thankyou so much [Smile]
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I have question if he touched his pants where hes penis is and where the wetness is or precum and then touches my vagina in anus or in opening and im wet but im wearing jeans can it cause pregnancy?
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Pls help
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EYTIN,

You have already been given the information to help you figure this out for yourself. I suggest going back and reading through that information so you can decide for yourself whether or not this is a way someone can get pregnant.

You have also already been asked not to post repeatedly. Doing so will generally not get a response any sooner, okay?

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Ok im sorry. Based on whatbi read its impossible to get pregnant from this am i right?
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Yes.

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Thankyou so much!
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You're welcome.

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