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Alan Hdz
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Hello, my girlfriend had her period May 4th; and it stopped bleeding on May 10th. Her last period was March 30th (35 days)

On May 11th, the day after she stopped bleeding, we had dry sex, me rubbing my penis against her underwear but she was on her back (kind of like anal). My penis was bare naked and although I had ejaculated before, I know i didn't ejaculate during that but I did get some precum on her underwear, some drops. She was very wet, is there a possibility of her getting pregnant?

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Heather
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If your girlfriend was wearing a garment of some kind with this, you can be sure pregnancy is a non-issue. Same goes with rubbing your genitals not against her genitals, but against her back or bottom.

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Alan Hdz
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She was just wearing her underwear, and when I rubbed my penis against her bottom, some drops of precum got on them. I never rubbed my penis on her front side of the underwear nor was there genital contact. But I'm worried that the precum could somehow impregnante her after all I had ejaculated before through masturbation.

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Heather
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Seriously, this isn't cause for concern, and isn't something that will result in pregnancy.

Pregnancy happens via DIRECT genital-to-genital contact (as in, no clothing) or DIRECT genital contact, on your partners part, with your fluids.

Neither of those scenarios happened here.

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Alan Hdz
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Oh thank you much for your reply; so just to wrap up, as long as there was that underwear of hers as barrier, and there was no direct contact, no matter if she was wet, there is no possible pregnancy risk?

By the way, I saw a look at your book, I will for sure buy a copy...and again thanks so much!

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That's correct.

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Alan Hdz
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Hello, sorry to bother again; the thing is my girlfriend went to Disney World in Florida for 4 days; and she went to the pool, and rode all the rides, etc. except for 3 i think.

Anyways, she came back and her and she got a really bad cold, and we just had dinner and she feels bloated; plus she feels like puking, and feels very dizzy. We really don't know what to think, we went on some online calendars and this are around the days she could start seeing pregnancy symptoms. We really don't know what to do and are very worried. Again, what we did three weeks ago was just me rub my penis on her bottom with her underwear on very near her vaginal/anal area. we only got some precum on it, and she was very wet.


Please tell us your opinion. We have decided to fully stop engagin in this activities, it's safer I think

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A cold is not a symptom of pregnancy. However, a lot of people who have a cold also feel nauseus and dizzy. So, sounds like your girlfriend should take it easy for a few days, and consult a doctof if she does not feel any better in a couple of days.

As Heather and Robin explained to you above, you did not have a pregnancy risk.

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