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ParanoidConfused
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So the condom broke today but I hadn't ejaculated yet. I'm wondering whether I should go buy EC or just wait it out. Any help is appreciated.
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What you're describing is equivalent, risk-wise, to Withdrawal as a contraceptive method.

How does your partner feel about the situation? It's really her choice to take EC or not here. Have you talked to her about her comfort level with this situation?

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We have talked and she's ok with it. She assures me I don't have to worry and that it's most likely nothing.

I just like to be on the careful side though.

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Since it sounds like your girlfriend is comfortable just waiting this out, then that's your best bet here.

Have you talked to her about either adding a second type of birth control along with condoms, or refraining from sexual activity that carries a pregnancy risk for a while? Looking at what you've been posting here lately, it seems like you have a lot of worries about pregnancy. It's always ok to step back from certain kinds of sex for a bit if they're causing more stress than enjoyment. =)

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Yeah, we took a step back from sex for about a month. At the moment I'm less anxious about it all. This post is more of should we err on the side of caution and buy an EC pill or just wait.

Though you're right, she's ok with waiting, so I guess that's what we'll do.

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Well, I'm glad you're feeling less anxious in general. Ultimately this isn't something we can decide for you, so the best plan is for you and your girlfriend to talk it over and decide what feels like the best plan.

And it sounds like that's what you've done. =)

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Thanks again for the help.
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