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susi
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To start of with, guys m really vry vry nervous about this... Experts plz help me.. All othr sites hv confusd me on this mattr..
Here is my case..
6 days b4, me and my grlfrnd were dry humping.. She was naked and i ws wearing an underwear and jeans..she was on top of me..during this i ejacuated and felt vry a wet and sticky spot?
Was that spot semen or sperm or both? Can it make my grlfrnd (who ws on top of me) pregnant?
Plz sir, plz madam help.. M really vry nrvous and m vry afraid?

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Sir.. Madam.. I wud b vry vry grateful if u rply as soon as possible... M really vry worried and afraid... Plz help me [Frown]

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Hi Susi, welcome to Scarleteen.

Have you seen this thread yet? It should answer your question for you: http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?/ubb/get_topic/f/27/t/027495.html

If you have any further questions after reading this, we'll be happy to clarify for you.

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susi
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according to this, if while hvng dry sex if only one of the partners had his clothes on, there is no preg risk.. But what about the wet spot on my jeans?? Didnt it contain sperms which can cause preg if it had touchd the vulwa??

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Heather
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Like that thread and the links within it explained, when you've got clothing on, as you did, you simply do not need to be concerned about pregnancy, because it's something that occurs with DIRECT contact.

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ohhkk... Sir... Thank u vry.. Muchh sir...
But sir, i want to knw dat does that wet spot contain sperm or only semen??

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We can't possibly know what was on your pants, or if it contained sperm cells. But in regard to this pregnancy question, it doesn't matter.

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"dhanayawad" sir (dis is hw we say thank u in india) this really helped sir... A lot sir
Sir, one more querry... Is it likely dat sperms cross jeans? If nt then wat is The reasn bhind it

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You're welcome. [Smile]

Like I have said, and what you read told you, no.

Sperm cells are SO VERY FRAGILE. Seriously: they are not the heroes in some action movie, they're more like the helpless damsel who needs the hero to rescue her, if you follow me.

Sperm cells need so much "help" to create a pregnancy. That's why when you've got pants on, we know pregnancy isn't something we have to worry about, even if your pants DO get wet and your partner wasn't wearing pants. Because they need all the fluid they're ejaculated with, and they need a clear, unfettered path to the vagina. And even then pregnancy isn't something that will always happen. Even when people ARE having the kind of sex/contact where pregnancy IS very likely, it STILL won't occur anything close to every time.

But you know, it's clear all of this has left you feeling really freaked out, so I think the takeaway here is that engaging in this kind of sex isn't a good choice for you. It's clearly not something you feel uncomfortable with, so it seems to me like until your feelings about this change, it's probably a good idea for EVERYONE to keep their pants on, okay?

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and sir, one last querry... Hope u dont mind [Smile]
If the grl has sex 6 days aftr the prds got ovr... Hw mch fertile she is during dat tym? Wat r the chances of hr gettng preg..?

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No one can accurately predict how fertile someone is or isn't based on the dates of menstruation alone.

To predict fertility accurately, a person needs to do cervical mucus and/or basal temperature charting daily for at least several months, then analyze the patterns in those charts.

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ohhkkk sir [Smile]
Thank u vry much sir... U releived me a grt deal... Thank u sir.. Dis really helped me a lot..feeling much bettr..
Keep up the gud wrk sir... Keep educating people..thank u fr ur precious tym...
I luk frwrd to u fr more inforation...

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sir, in additn to my case,, what if that wet spot on the outside of my jeans touched her vulwa??? Is it a pregnancy threat?

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Robin Lee
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No. that is not something to be concerned about. If one person is wearing clothing, there is not a pregnancy risk. For a pregnancy to occur, there needs to be direct contact between bare genitals.

Please understand that our answer on this, which is the same as what you read in the articles, is not going to change. Facts are facts.

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