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Hi there - I don't know if I'm doing this right, but id like some advice...

Last week, my bf and I were "dry humping" as Ive realized its called. I had on cotton pajama pants and undies and he had his pants and undies off. However, he positioned his penis against the entrance of my vagina (but against the underwear) and pushed and rubbed slightly. He did not ejaculate but I have been worried that there might have been precum, in which case, if there was, and it was pressed against me through underwear, worries me because Im paranoid that that could cause pregnancy.

I know Im probably freaking out for nothing but this thought has been in the back of my mind all week. Please help [Frown]

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Hi Curious, welcome to Scarleteen.

Have you seen this thread on pregnancy risks? If not, why don't you start by reading through this, and then you can come back if you have further questions: http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?/ubb/get_topic/f/27/t/027495.html

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Yes I've seen that thread, however, still feeling a bit anxious:(
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What did you take away from the thread in terms of your risk level?

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Well, it mentioned that clothing is enough of a barrier? But even if the genitals were pressed directly against each other (separated by 2 thin layers of fabric) and I could feel the tip pushing against me? Im sorry - I just feel a bit freaked out and will definitely not do such things again anyway..
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Exactly.

Do you think maybe you're feeling freaked out more about this in general than about a pregnancy risk, since this wasn't a situation which posed one?

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No, because Ive done this before, but never with him naked or with such thin clothing on. I think my worst fear at the moment is to get pregnant - I don't think I could manage it at this stage in my life, maybe thats why Im so paranoid about "the chances" and freak out over the possibilities.

But if you insist that clothing would prevent any precum from impregnating me, then Ill put my faith in that and stop stressing so much [Smile] Thank you for your reply [Smile]

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