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nicolle
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im 14, and a virgin. i plan and made promises to my self and others to stay a virgin until i was marrried. But i have questions about masturbation. I pleasure my self alot, but i never seem to get that "full effect". If u get what im saying. Is it because im a virgin? I dont understand how to get that "full effect".

Also, im scared to do sexual activities with my partner such as eating me out, because i have never had such pleasure, and im afraid that i wont "cum"...lol.

please, give me some questions [Smile]

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Heather
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When you say "full effect," do you mean you don't reach orgasm? Or that you don't feel satisfied? or that masturbation isn't meeting your expectations, or.....?

Just so you know waling in, if by "virgin" you mean either having has vaginal intercourse OR any kind of sex with a partner, not having done either of those things certainly isn't going to be a barrier to enjoying and exploring sex by yourself via masturbation.

It's not more likely sex with a partner would result in the things you might be looking for than masturbation.

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yes, ive never experienced anything like an orgasm. I was just wondering if it had anything to do with me being a virgin; not having any intercourse once so ever.
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Nope. And understand that most women don't experience orgasm from intercourse all by itself. In fact, given the numbers, it's safe to say that might be the sexual activity where women are LEAST likely to reach orgasm if that's the only sexual activity going on.

It sometimes takes a while for people to learn what they like sexually, as well as to "let go" in the way we need to to reach orgasm. But most people learn to orgasm first by themselves, not with partners. It may just be -- and probably is -- that you need more time to experiment.

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