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London24
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Alright so here is my story and question. My girlfriend for over a year and I were kissing and things got heated. We ended up dry humping. Me with basketball shorts and boxers, her with leggings and panties. I've read probably fifty times that sperm can't get through clothes on this site but I just wanted confirmation for our encounter. The difference to me is that my hand more or less did the motion and guided my penis in the rubbing motions. She was wet with fluids and I ejaculated inside of my boxers without a condom. I didn't stop however since I was turn on by how excited she was. So my question is would the added rubbing aid in sperm going through clothes and since my hand was there could it have allowed me to go "deeper" than typical dry humping and closer to the vagina? Is the chance of pregnancy still zero since there was so much clothing? We sat down and talked afterwards and realized we weren't ready for this. It was just that we hadn't seen each other in over two months as she is traveling abroad and I went to go see her. Thank you very much for any help you can offer.
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Robin Lee
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HI London24
and welcome to Scarleteen,

We ask people with questions such as yours to read through the material located at this link:

http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?/ubb/get_topic/f/27/t/027786.html

If you have any questions after reading tht, come on back.

Thanks.

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London24
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Thanks so much for your quick response. I took a look at the links and the post and I just had a few more questions. I'm sorry because I noticed at the top it said you try not to respond to these kind of things, its just that this site has been hands down the only one with reliable information and has credentials readily available to view. Anyway, I know that clothes were involved and they never came off and that was discussed in one of the articles. My only question would be if the other circumstances with the continued dry humping and "placement" change any of those facts. I can definitely see how clothes can stop semen from getting through, I was just wondering if it can be pushed through. Thanks so much.
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Heather
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Like that link made clear, if people are wearing clothes, pregnancy is a non-issue.

No matter what position your bodies were in, if you were both dressed, pregnancy simply isn't something you need to concern yourself with here because it simply cannot happen when people are dressed like you have described.

For pregnancy to occur, there needs to be DIRECT -- as in, clothes not between -- genital-to-genital contact and/or DIRECT contact between your semen and someone's naked vulva.

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Thank you so much for your help. Sorry again for asking questions just really enjoy your honesty and credible information. You all are the best!
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Heather
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You're welcome, cheers. [Smile]

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