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So me and my boyfriend just started having sex, and despite that fact we were both virgins it wasn't that Akward. Until he was in literal pain trying to get it in. I didn't think I was THAT tight ( considering I have been using tampons for years) and it didn't hurt me at all. Is there something we could have done wrong? I have never heard of a guy hurting himself, you know?
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Were you two using lubricant?

If not, that's most likely the cause for his pain. His genital tissue is pretty delicate, just like yours, so when things aren't lubricated enough, people with any kind of genitals can experience pain from sexual activities where there's friction by design, like intercourse.

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