My girlfriend and I decided to go out this weekend and have sex for the first time . I carried condoms, a spermicide tablet (Today) and calculated that this weekend would fall during the safe day zone (Her period started on the 19th and goes on for about 5 days.Her cycle is around 29-30 days).
Now I withdrew and blew in the condom outside , I checked the condom and there was no tear I threw it in the trash and used another one but not before washing my hands. But I forgot to wipe or wash my penis before putting on the new one.
I know I am being paranoid here but do I need to be worried about her getting pregnant. I used a condom + spermicide + withdraw method + safe days .
Really worried ,Should I ask her to take a morning after pill. This happened on Sunday morning
Posts: 6 | From: India | Registered: Nov 2012
| IP: Logged |
There isn't really any such thing as a "safe day." If you're having the kinds of sex that can create a pregnancy, there will always be some risk, and just counting days isn't a reliable way to know when ovulation happens, because it isn't the same for every woman.
However, given that you used a condom, spermicide, and the withdrawal method, it's not really relevant anyways, because you are well protected from pregnancy using those methods.
Does that make sense?
-------------------- "Another world is not only possible, she is on her way. On a quiet day, I can hear her breathing." -Arundhati Roy Posts: 5758 | From: Canada/Australia | Registered: Sep 2004
| IP: Logged |
Copyright 1998, 2014 Heather Corinna/Scarleteen
Scarleteen.com: Providing comprehensive sex education online to teens and young adults worldwide since 1998
Information on this site is provided for educational purposes. It is not meant to and cannot substitute for advice or care provided by an in-person medical professional. The information contained herein is not meant to be used to diagnose or treat a health problem or disease, or for prescribing any medication. You should always consult your own healthcare provider if you have a health problem or medical condition.