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Gmmr
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Hi, My girlfriend and I are both virgins. We had dry sex for the first time. We both were wearing our underwear. She was wearing panties and I was wearing boxers. We were going at it and I noticed I was wet, and I know I didn't cum, because its quite different and I didn't feel any muscle contractions or anything. I had masterbated earlier in the day, pee'd right after, then pee'd once more later on in the night. My question is, can she get pregnant? Even though both of us were wearing our underwear? I know that my boxers were a bit moist, and i know i did precum. But I just don't I don't think precum and what not can go through underwear. Especially if she was ontop of me... I'm just worried and panicking.

There is also another part to this...

Right after that my girlfriend touched my penis and I guess she noticed that I precame. I did not ejaculate, it just oozed out as stated above. This occurrd while we were dryhumping in the same situation above. she stopped and touched me and i touche the precum. Seeing as i touched it, I then got a packaged wet napkin that I got from Tony Roma's, a rib restaurant. The wet napkin was not anti bacterial, but I used it to wipe my hands thouroughly, then I used another one and wiped it again. I then washed my fingers with some water I had in the car and then dried my hands on my tshirt. After that, she got ontop of me, we both had underwear on. I then fingered her from behind like 3 times, and It wasn't even all the way in, it was just about half an inch in, since it was from behind. After all that I did prior, can she get pregnant? She is also on the pill for Achne, takes it daily, but not at consistent times. I also masterbated earlier in the day and pee'd at least twice prior. I am just worried. I'll be safer next time and just obstain from sexual activity, I know she feels the same too. This all happened within 10 minutes of eachother... I am just worried. With everything that happened in both events on te same day, could she get pregnant from precum through both our underwear? And my finger after I cleaned it?? Please help me... I won't do this again till I'm ready to have kids.

Thanks

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Gummr, have you seen this post yet?
http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?/ubb/get_topic/f/27/t/027495.html

Why don't you start there, and then come back if you have any further questions?

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Gmmr
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Okay, after reading a lot of the articles, I feel alittle better and at ease. But I think just for clarification and to further give me piece if mind, would anyone just look it over and tell me what they truthfully think? But the articles do help a lot.
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HI Gmmr and welcome to Scarleteen.

What we think is going to be the same as the facts in the articles. When it comes to whether something is risky or not, whether or not it could lead to pregnancy, it's based on fact, not opinion. [Smile]

How about this: Why don't you go through what you think the answers are based on what you learned in the articles, and one of us will respond and let you know if you're on the right track with your thinking? Sound good? [Smile]

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Gmmr
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Well i read most of the articles. My main thing was whether or precum can get a girl pregnant through her underwear, when it has to go through mine too. But from reading the articles and other posts, I'm looking at zero chance, right? Since it did say in one of the articles that if someone masterbates and then urinates, the leftover sperm should be gone from the penis. I'm guessing that's y situation as I did it in the morning and I did we around 3-4 times prior to the initial pee. Is that correct?

And from reading the washing hands article, I did get some precum on my hands but i did wipe them with two wet naps; and then used water from a bottle to rinse; then wiped on my shirt. But after reading tht article, even wiping my hands on my shirt would have been sufficient? Am I right? I think I'm on the right track...

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Correct on both counts. [Smile]

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Gmmr
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Oh my god! Thank you. Your articles and even your simple statement have put me at ease, totally. Thank you so much. I don't ever want to go through this again. Both my girlfriend and I have agreed to forego sex till we get married and are ready for kids. Thank you again!
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You're welcome! Glad to hear you're feeling better about all of this.

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