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Rosetta
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Hello, I really need some clarification on something. Last month, on the 28th, my boyfriend came over. We were just fooling around as usual, and I gave him an oral. He 'came' on his stomach and I got him tissues to wipe it off. After that, he and I washed our hands. Then he also gave me an oral and then started dry humping me. I had no underwear on, and he had his boxer and his shorts (total of 2 layers) on. He was rubbing himself against my vagina for about 5 minutes or so.

And also, I had a yeast infection a week after when my boyfriend and I were messing around. It stopped about 4-5 days later. No more itching or cottage cheese-like discharges.

As of today, my period should be here. It's either today or tomorrow (the 14th). It's not here today yet and I've been paranoid for the past 2-3 weeks. My breasts were quite sore yesterday but it feels better today. I was also VERY bloated yesterday, my stomach was bulging out. But today it's smaller.
I usually get vaginal discharge a few days before my period comes, but I don't have ANY discharge at all. It's very dry. No itching or anything, whatsoever.

So what's going on? Am I just stressing too much? I just finished the school year, and I studied a lot for the finals.

Please help? ):

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Have you seen this post yet, Rosetta?
http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?/ubb/get_topic/f/28/t/006958.html

Why don't you read it, first, and then you can come back with any additional questions.

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Johanna
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Rosetta
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Yes I did. I just really want to know for SURE if there's any chances of my boyfriend's pre cum/cum going through his shorts?
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Here's an except from the article "Pregnancy Scared", linked to in the above post:

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Were you only kissing, having oral sex, manual sex and/or dry sex, where everyone had clothes on and no one ejaculated on or very near anyone else's vulva? These kinds of sex do NOT present any pregnancy risks, though some can present risks of STIs.
Does that answer your question?

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Johanna
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Rosetta
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Oh, yes, thank you!

Also, can you answer about the vaginal discharge? How come I'm not having any, because I usually get discharge often every now and then. Is it normal to not have any at all?

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Our menstrual cycles don't look exactly the same every month, so small variations like that are not a cause for concern.

But it also doesn't sound like you're late for your period yet at all, so there's really reason to stress at this point.

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Johanna
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Rosetta
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Alright. Thank you very much! I appreciate your time and help [Smile]
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