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Juggz0rz
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The situation started at April 25th, I was at my gf's house at that time, I was fully clothed, I was wearing tshirt, pants and underwear and my gf was also wearing a tshirt, pants and panties we were both kissing and we are both virgins and we discovered something, she was sitting near mine and hers was also near mine and what I did is I humped her near mines like acting if we were both having sex and 10 min later we stopped, we stopped she smells my pants near to mines and she suddenly told me not to smell on my pants near mines, she was really shy at that time when she told me not to smell my pants, so I asked why should I not smell it, she just said no please don't! And I asked her to explain why and she explained, she explained that she was wet, it was her first time for her to experience that feeling and when we were both humping she suddenly noticed that she was wet in the bottom that's why she smell my pants near mine and wants to stop, and she told me that the wet slipped through her panties and might got on her pants, so after she explained I was worried [Frown] It was also my first time to do that, when we were both humping I also noticed that I pee'd a little( I really don't know what it was and why I pee'd) [Frown] I'm really worried If It was a cum that might slipped through my underwear and slipped to my pants [Frown] I'm really worried that it might also slipped on my gf's pants and through her panties and I'm worried that If she might get pregnant from that [Frown] (( I'm really worried because her wet was able to slipped through her panties and I was also thinking that my pee is also able to slipped to my underwear too and going through her panties that will result to pregnancy I'm so very scared [Frown] We're still doing it but its different because I always wear jeans now when I'll go to her house and try what we discovered again [Frown] (

After 5 days she then got her period, Is it possible that she is pregnant?

I'm 15 years old and we are both virgins. Sorry for my bad english [Frown] This is the best website I only know when it comes to this situations, Please I really need some help and advices guys [Frown]

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She told me that just this week if she accidentally bend her hips it will hurt, she describe that it feel its broken if it hurts, im so very stressed and very worried [Frown] ( please help [Frown] (
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If she is having pain in her hips that severe, she needs to see a doctor, any doctor. (And it probably has nothing to do with an early pregnancy.)

It sounds like you were both wearing clothes, so there would not have been pregnancy risks. And she's gotten her period, so she can rule out a pregnancy.

But with severe pain of any kind, we'd advise she see a doctor to find out what's going on and get care.

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Thank you so much for clearing my mind Heather [Smile]

I just had a talk with her about her hips, she said she probably needs to do exercise because she's chubby and doesn't do exercise >.<

Most of my scares are now gone :)I need another help [Frown] There is also something that I'm worried [Frown] When I met her she's a type of girl that loves to eat that's why she's chubby'ish so when she told me that she eat a lot that I've been worried I thought if it was a sign [Frown]

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So that means there is really no pregnancy risks that we did, Heather?
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If you were both wearing clothes during the situation you describe then no, there was no pregnancy risk.

Here's an article that clearly outlines what is and is not a pregnancy risk. It might help you for the future.
Pregnancy Scared?

Do you have any more questions or concerns? [Smile]

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Thank you so much Robin Lee for helping me out clearing my scares [Big Grin]

I'll start to read it Robin [Smile] I know that will really help me out in the future [Big Grin] Thanks for the link [Smile]

Anyway before I read it, I need to ask something Robin [Frown] my gf had a fever since last night she didn't have any headaches its just her temperature is a bit high thats why she felt kinda hot but this night she said its slowly disappearing.

I'm very worried about this Robin please Robin or someone help me [Frown]

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Peole get fevers for all sorts of reasons, some serious some not.

If your girlfriend has a fever and is feeling sick, it's best for her to go see a doctor.

It sounds like you're very worried about her. Remember though too that she knows her body best.

Again though, if she's feeling sick a doctor's help is what she needs.

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Okay thank you again Robin [Smile]

So does this mean having a fever isn't a sign at all? [Big Grin]

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Oh, you were thinking that fever was a sign of pregnancy? I'm sorry. I didn't realize that's what you were asking. Fever is not a sign of pregnancy. In fact, there's really no single physical symptom that is a sign of pregnancy other than a missed period. So many other things people experience when they are pregnant are also symptoms of other things so it's really not useful to see them as signs of pregnancy.

Besides, The sexual situation you described did not pose a pregnancy risk.

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Okay thank you so much for always responding fast Robin [Smile] Now all of my scares are slowly disappearing [Smile]

I'm kinda curious about something, If a girl is pregnant for example how many days will the symptom shows up Robin?

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You know...some people experience a lot of bodily changes during pregnancy, and some people don't experience any changes at all. For example, some people have severe "morning sickness"/nausea, some have it fairly mildly or only for a short time, and some sail through with no nausea whatsoever.

So, there really isn't an answer to that question. [Smile]

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Okay thank you sooo much for clearing my mind Robin! Now I won't stress things starting now [Big Grin]

Thank you sooooo muuuuch! [Big Grin]

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