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Brandon T
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My girlfriend and I had sex today (with a condom- no breakage) and I ejaculated into her mouth. We kissed here and there and about an hour later, I gave her non-penetrative oral sex. Is it possible that the sperm would have lived long enough for it to get from her mouth, to my mouth, to her vagina, and into it in that hour?

If it helps, there is an ovulation app she has to keep track of our "safe" days. Her ovulation was supposedly yesterday but would this increase the chances by a lot?

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Robin Lee
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No, sperm does not live in the mouth like that.

More more info on what is and is not a pregnancy risk, can you take a look at this?

Pregnancy Scared?

Also, unless this ovulation app has your girlfriend tracking her basal body temperature and certical mucus, and she's been doing so for several months, ovulation prediction isn't going to be terribly accurate.

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Brandon T
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Thanks for your reply Robin!

Are you sure of this though? Because we are contemplating telling a responsible adult on taking the Plan B emergency contraceptive pill. If there is really no risk, then we can maintain our intimacy as a secret between her an I.

Also, I already read the link you sent me and it seemed to provide me with information outside of this situation, thanks though.

The app we use only tracks her periods and predicts her ovulation/fertility days and we use it for "natural family planning". I guess we'll rely on it less!

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Robin Lee
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The two risk situations for pregnancy are:

1. When fresh ejaculate comes into contact with a bare vulva.
2. When there is any contact between a bare penis and a bare vulva, whether rubbing or intercourse.

Sperm need a very specific environment in which to live. That's why the contact between ejaculate and vulva has to be immediate in order for it to be considered a pregnancy risk. Put another way, if the ejaculate has to make any other stops between penis and vulva, such as onto a hand, or a towel, or intobath water or a mouth, then the sperm are no longer viable. What you have described with the oral sex is not a pregnancy risk.

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Robin Lee
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and....tracking ovulation and predicting fertile days based on numbers of days is not usually reliable.

Here's some information on how fertility awareness works. . As you can see, it's pretty involved.

Fertility Awareness (FAM)

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my girl friend was touching my penis area fron out side....i had under wear and jean and she was touching my penis ....and my penis go erect and pre cum came but shi did not touched the penis direcly ...she was moving her hand above jean.....later on minmum it might be 20 min. it is more than 30 min but just to say mimum......she went to for toilet and she wasted her vagina with same hand can she get pragnant....and can precum travel through jeans...and can this situation make her pragnant there ...
we were jst lying on each other ....
plz help...should she take pill to avoid pragancy

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Heather
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Can you check with this first, please: http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?/ubb/get_topic/f/28/t/006958.html

Thanks! [Smile]

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i read it plz let mi know to my q?
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help mi please
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my girl friend was touching my penis area fron out side....i had under wear and jean and she was touching my penis ....and my penis go erect and pre cum came but shi did not touched the penis direcly ...she was moving her hand above jean.....later on minmum it might be 20 min. it is more than 30 min but just to say mimum......she went to for toilet and she wasted her vagina with same hand can she get pragnant....and can precum travel through jeans...and can this situation make her pragnant there ...
we were jst lying on each other ....
plz help.

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Heather
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Please don't keep reporting your same question here and in other people's threads, okay?

When you read that, did you see how it said that if people are only having contact outside clothing how there are NO pregnancy risks?

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