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Okay so my bf is not a virgin and i am. He knows what hes doing and im the clueless one. I know all the facts and consequences about having sex at my age (15) but i feel emotionally and mentally im ready, and we love each other. My question is.. What should i do to prepare. Do i rid of pubic hair? What type of condoms are good the first time? Im just. Ot sure what i should do to prepare!

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Robin Lee
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Getting ready for sex---especially a first time, but any time really--is ideally a mutual activity. [Smile] Your boyfriend may have had sex before, but he hasn't had it with you so this is a brand new experience for him, too.

The most important thing with sex is communication--before, during, and after. So to prepare, you and your boyfriend need to sit down and chat with each other, talk about what you'd both like, how you're both feeling, the practicalities (such as, as you asked, buying condoms).

Here's some reading material that may give you some food for thought, and we can chat about any of this. [Smile]

Ready or Not? The Scarleteen Sex Readiness Checklist

First Intercourse 101

Be a Blabbermouth! The Whats, Whys and Hows of Talking About Sex With a Partner

[ 02-24-2012, 10:04 PM: Message edited by: Robin Lee ]


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