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I'm a girl and recently became sexually active with my boyfriend. At first it was just a lot of pain with no pleasure, which I thought would come as the pain goes away. Now it doesn't hurt anymore but I never reached orgasm during sex, while my bf always does with no problem.
I can easily climax with masturbation, I heard it has something to do with the clitoris, but I don't exactly know what's going on [Frown]


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By sex, do you mean any kind of sex or one given kind?

And have you and your boyfriend taken the time to explore sex together well, over time, including you telling him what you do and don't like, what does and doesn't feel good?

When whatever kind of sex you're talking about here hurt, too, did you communicate together to stop doing what was hurting and start doing what felt good, instead?

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