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luvgirl
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Well.. the title says it all..
I've been with my boyfriend over a year now.. and even though we haven thad sex.. is about the only thing we havent done, cause everything else is put of the bag.
We used to have a great love life, and I used to feel the desire in his eyes when he looked my way. Now is all like.. cold. But the relationship not, just in a passional way. I think he doesnt want me, cause I've tried different approches like telling him, or show him, or simply try to kiss him hard and he answers but he always stops the kiss and everything is.. romantic again.

Sometimes I feel the need to be kissed in a rough and passional way, and he used to do it all the time.. Now is like he doesnt think about me that way anymore.

I dont know what else to do, I've tried to seduce him, talk to him, throw hints, but nothings passes him.

Help me please!

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Karybu
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When you say you've tried to talk to him, do you mean you've tried to have a good serious discussion about this, and not when you're in bed or about to be? Because really the only thing to do is talk to him about it - if you feel he isn't listening to you, then point that out. You might find it helpful to read this before sitting down to discuss it: Be a Blabbermouth! The Whys, Whats and Hows of Talking About Sex With a Partner

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luvgirl
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When I say talk to him.. I really mea it.. I've said it to him in many ocassions, and almost all have been in non sexual places, but in serious locations, where we can talk comfortably.
That's why I dont know what to do know.
He says he doesnt feel it that way, that we just havent had the chance to do anything :S

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