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Laura Lu
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so okay heres wat im having troubles with!
i was a virgin...well still sortof am.
me and my boyfriend tried having sex and well ecause i was nervous he didnt get in al the way, just the tip for a few seconds and then after he just rubbed on me for a good while.
im just really nervous and scared because i dont wanna be pregnant and so far the only sign i have is cramps but i thnk thats because he "popped my cherry" and apparently that could cause some cramps.
im not sick,headaches,sore boobs...NONE OF THAT.
but still im worried...can i be pregnant even tho he promissed me no cum came out, and i didnt feel anything of the sort?!

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Did you use a condom? Are you on any sort of hormonal birth control?

If not, can I ask why you didn't use any type of protection?

Any unprotected genital contact means a pregnancy risk, regardless of whether there was full ejaculation. Pre-ejaculate can present a risk, and we always treat situations like this as if there was pre-ejaculate present. Chances are you wouldn't notice it anyway.

So, if all of this was completely unprotected, you have a low to medium pregnancy risk, and I'd suggest you seek EC if it's been within 5 days since this incident. If it's been longer than that, you may want to take a pregnancy test.

If you used a condom or are on BC, and you use them correctly, you do not have a risk here.

As a side note, there is no fruit in the vagina. the hymen doesn't play any role in pregnancy, and though it can be painful if that membrane is stretched during sex play, it isn't likely to cause cramps. And either way, you wouldn't see pregnancy "symptoms" (and I use that term loosely, since almost all symptoms can be explained by some other ailment other than pregnancy) until at least 2 months in.

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Laura Lu
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okays well thank you so much.
so then thats good if its a low-medium risk, and i promise this didnt go on for long at all..it was a few trying seconds where he had himself in me and we didnt end up having sex at all.
we have done the things where hes rubbed himself on me and so far each time ive gotten my period. he also assures me he knows when he might cum or pre-cum.
also, because i have a lower risk do you think that the reason why im getting cramps and everything is from stressing out about all of this(due to my anxiety aswell)?
and i dont know what to do about the pregnancy test im just scared of getting one but then again i guess its better to know.

[ 08-29-2009, 10:53 PM: Message edited by: Laura Lu ]

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omg reading this makes me feel so much better.. this happened to me last night in fact and ive been soo worried i could be pregnant.. but he was only in me for a few sec and i didnt feel any pre ejaculation or ejaculation of any kind and he says he didnt..it was such a stupid decision to do that though like im so worried now. i really hope this works out okay for the both of us.
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Laura Lu
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hahaha aweee fer sure i agree 100% hun. its so so so scaryyyy! but honestly try not to think about it.
chances are veryyy high we arent prego and thats good!
i hope that it turns out good for you too hun!

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