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Scarlett121
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Hi. I'm new here, and really worried, I just can't shake off the feeling that something is terribly wrong.

6 weeks ago (nearing 7 weeks on Monday), I was with my boyfriend. I was wearing my panties(made of nylon and spandex) and he was wearing boxers (judging by the material, I think it was cotton). I was on top of him- from previous events I was wet from my own fluids. Anyways, I decided to rub myself slowly from the shaft to the tip of his penis, through our two clothes- twice. This occurred for less than a minute. I don't know if any pre-cum was present, but lets assume there was.

I have read your post about dry sex, but unfortunately, it didn't help me considering...well, I'm not even sure if I can call what we did 'dry sex' since it lasted 40 seconds, and there was no humping. Just slow rubbing.

There was no penetration or ejaculation. I would like to know my risk of pregnancy. =/ Again, these two materials remained on the whole time.

I've taken 4 pregnnacy tests since then (I took them all when it was 5 weeks after said incident). All negative. I have irregular periods, so I'm not expecting my period.

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JamsessionVT
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I mean, whether you want to call it humping or rubbing, it all amounts to the same thing [Smile]

You have no risk of pregnancy here. Seminal fluids would have to have completely penetrated both layers of clothing, and the same would have had to have occurred from your own vaginal secretions.

Plus, 4 negative pregnancy tests is a fantastically accurate indicator of no pregnancy. Rest easy, OK?

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Scarlett121
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Thank you so much. I've been freaking myself out for weeks now. =/ Its been really hard for me that I've convinced myself I have symptoms. It's awful.

I've irritated my cervix by constantly checking, that last week, I made it discharge some brown, old blood. I'm sorry if it's TMI. Otherwise, its remained low, and hard, and my muccus, judging by what's infertile is very little, white and clumpy, and tacky too- and its been like that for a long while now.

Thank you so much.

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