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littleninjagirl
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SO my Boyfriend and have only had sex 3 times. The 1st time was 2 monthes ago, and it was un-protected, but that catch is that he never ejaculated before or after we had sex. Other then that the other two times we have been using condoms. I have had my period since the un-protected sex, and about two days ago i was suppoed to start my period again, but i only bled for a day, then it stopped. Is it still possible i am pregnant?

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Heather
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Your period after the unprotected sex: was it just like your period normally is? Not very short or lighter in any way?

With the condom use: you have been using them for all direct genital contact, and no slips, breaks or tears?

Just to be sure you understand, withdrawal is not very effective. Condoms are when used properly, but no method of birth control is 100% effective, so with vaginal intercourse, pregnancy will always be a risk of some kind.

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It was exactly like everyother one ive had. Not light or short in anyway.

Yes, direct genital contact. No, no slips breaks or tears either. i made sureof that personally.

We dont do with draw. but he never ejaculated what so ever so there would be no sperm in the pre-ejaculation fluids. Also about a week after i had the un-protected sex i took a pregnancy test and it tested negative. I plan on taking another one but im just nervous and i wonder the persents tht i might be pregnant.

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The first incident you're describing, if he pulled out before ejacuating, that is what withdrawal is. As well, understand that pre-ejaculate can contain sperm sometimes (I know this gets old, but just ask my parents: they thought they had nothing to worry about too, but here I am).

But based on what you are saying here, it seems not likely you have become pregnant.

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ok thanks so much for your help. Ill still be taking a test just to make sure. you know, to be on the safe side.

ive been thinking about it and i have also been under alot of stress lately and that might be what happened to my period. of lack of nutrietion.

THANK YOU!!!!!!! [Big Grin]

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