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jus_another_gurl
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umm,i have quite a few questions and if u could please answer them that would be great thanks!
ok, when i masturbate it gets really intense and sometimes i start to shudder and i stop cause i cant handle it, whats going on? 2) when i masturbate sometimes this stuff sorta squirts out and it smells like pee!! what is it?
And another one i'm a sophmore now and i'm like 4'11!! And i havent been asked out yet! do u think my height is a major factor?
thanks for taking your time and answering my questions.
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You're welcome. [Smile]

1. Sounds like you're having an orgasm. Continuous masturbation (which includes touching your clitoris) can be overwhelming for some women - as well as uncomfortable right after orgasm. That's because the clitoris is composed of thousands of nerve endings. Try different approaches and see what works for you, in terms of finding your comfort level.

2. Some women can ejaculate, similar to men.
The Skene's gland is on the upper wall of your vagina; some scientists think that's the location of the "G-spot." The Skene's gland drains into the urethra (part of the plumbing connected to your bladder), and it produces ejaculatory fluid for some women.

It isn't urine.

3. No, your height has nothing to do with anything (except it might keep you from getting high stuff off supermarket shelves, just like me).

Guys don't discriminate against short women. Someone will ask you out at some point. Could be tomorrow, who knows?

Just concentrate on being yourself and being happy & confident. If you're on the shy side, try to be a bit more outgoing and take it slow. Smile at nice guys in the hallway at school. Talk to people, let them know you can be on their radar screen.

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jus_another_gurl
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thanks again lol! And what exactly do u mean by try a different approach?
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DydduKenm
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I dont know about the other stuff but dont be worried about your height! Im 5ft nothin and havent grown since the 7th grade! All my guy friends tell me they think being short is sexy. they dont want some amazon woman! lol but yea, i like bein short. dont worry about it gurl! [Big Grin]
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(Hey, DontCopyMe, this area is for Staff and Volunteer replies ONLY. Please remember to not post here in the future unless you're asking your own question [Smile] See you on the rest of the boards!)

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oh never mind lol sorry
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