I recently lost my virginity to a guy who was not a virgin and who has a rather large penis. We have had sex twice since then. But the initial pentatration still hurts even though he is being gental and going slow. After penetration and during sex however, i'm fine. I'm also still beeding. Not as much as the first time, but there is visable blood. I'm also a little tender for about a day after, and if he pulls out before we are finished he can't get it back in. He said it's because i'm bleeding and a little swollen and he doesn't want to do anything wrong or seriously hurt me. We have had oral and manual sex and he can finger me without pain or blood, and i can insert a tampon just fine. Am I being torn apart inside because his penis is too big and thick? Am i doing something wrong, or is there something wrong with me? can he go too deep?
Posts: 16 | From: Hamilton | Registered: Jun 2006
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Are you completely aroused before attempting penetration? Are you using extra lube?
If not, that could be what's causing the issues.
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