most people pick up oral herpes as small children (during a lot of slobbery hand-to-mouth-to-toys play).I've definitely noticed the military is supser-thorough when they do STD screens, so I'd ay that's a reliable result. Can oyu get herpes some other way, then? no. you need to be infected with the herpes virus.
So if you've got those weird bumps on your gentals, well, the only way to know for sure is to get them looked at by a doctor.
and if you suspect your questions are going to require more than a one-shot reply, please don't post it in AskST. the main forum (Sex Basics, etc.) are more suited for the task.
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You'll no longer have any reason to doubt the
transcendent power of love after you see it obliterate
an entire armored division in military tests.
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