Me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months(we're friends for 3 years now). I know that he's bi for almost 2 years and it never was a big deal for me. He really loves me and he would never cheat and he said that he want's to be forever together with me. I want that too, cuz he's really special. A few months ago he told me that he wants to try something ''gay'' like kissing a guy(or even sex), but only if I'm totally okay with it, otherwise he wouldn't do it(he would still be together with me tho). At first I didn't know what to say and I cryed cuz I thought like I'm not enough or idk.. Then I talked to my best friend and she said that I shouldn't let him do it(she thinks it's the same like cheating with a woman). I told him that it's okay for me, but now I'm scared that if he's gonna do it, and if he's gonna like it, and then he might even fall in love, then he'll leave me for a guy. I really don't wanna lose him. But I totally understand him and his situation, he really doesn't wanna hurt me, but it would hurt so much to see him with another person. And after that things between us might change and I really don't want that. So I wanna hear your opinion, should I let him do it or no?
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